Fear of being snubbed.

Latently we all have our own identities but it has always been our choice to design it the way we want, but so many of us have got a lot of other talents which we long to bring it out but end up pushing it into a cocoon and draw an illusionary shell around us to bask in its warmth being in our own demure for a fear over nothing, and that nothing here is the thought of being humiliated.

Not everyone who are famous today and great at their chosen paths were good at it when they began, as how they are today. Ask them and they will definitely start a tell-tale which would go on as,” you know how much of struggle I have gone through and the hardships were not so easy to cross”. I know you guys must be bored of such. 

To be frank, they are only bored of answering those questions themselves and they are at a point where the thought of giving out a pre saved template for any similar kind of question is the only option after being too tired to have actually crossed the hurdles. Now they do not care much about answering quibbles.  

We have all had that inhibition on something at some point on which we wanted to showcase our talents but probably we weren’t at our best and there was a fear of being humiliated by the ridicules of those guys trying to make a mockery for their fun. Does it ring a bell? You must have had that fear or probably could have it even now.Ask yourself whom are you scared off ? Your delusions or peers or superiors? 

I have not come across any successful person or a top leader to be a bully and if at all they are, their position will never last long and you must ensure that their opinions are never going to bother you. Break free and prove yourself to yourself on your capabilities and start believing in your abilities, and you will soon see that those low minds will be looking up for you, as rainbows cannot be seen if they are looking down. Do not ever give a damn to them, and make sure your only competition is yourself and you try to better yourself with every given and created opportunity and dare to think not only out of the box but also as though there is no box at all.

If you are a person who care for freedom as much as you care for air, first give yourself a self-introspection to check if you’re letting your own fear clutch your mind and stop you, later you can worry about getting freedom from others or whoever you feel is holding it back. Leaving out the fear and being able to follow what you want, to reach a stage where you are constantly giving your best and continuing to improve is when you have reached an impeccable level of freedom. Your devotion is an admirable attribute which must be valued above everything else and the fear of being snubbed is at the least the line which separates you and your devotion, and the more your fear is, thicker is that line going to be. So realize your stories of flirting with fear- if you want to marry your dreams, break up soon with your skeptics that you have on your own abilities. Trying to move forward with fear is like trying to climb on to a cliff while the skills are well buried at the bottom.

Being there and talking about it, the undeniable truth is that we are all captives of our own identities and we live in a prison of our own creation. So it is your choice to make it a better you, out of what you are capable of.

Faith or fear is your choice.